Kathy McManus writes for The Responsibility Project. McManus’s article on October 20, 2009 entitled Should Walking While Texting Be Illegal? is a must read:

“Exactly forty years after a man first stepped on the moon, a walking, texting teenager took another giant leap forward and stepped into an open manhole, becoming the latest case-study of responsibility in America.” Click here to continue reading.

Society has taken a disturbing downturn in character. Bad manners and high crime rates are parts of the same disease. When I live by the Golden Rule, when I treat you the way I would want to be treated…I will not lie to you…I will not steal from you…I will not cheat.

There is an easier and less expensive way to protect yourself and your loved ones and you can do it today. It is called Wasp Spray. Click on the following link to watch a video on how this works. Wasp Spray

These beautiful Easter eggs are colored with dyes made from beets, onions and blueberries. Rosalind Creasy

By Rosalind Creasy

When Alex, my 10 year old grandson, came to stay with me during spring break, he was eager to color Easter eggs. Also, I hadn’t seen Jody Main, my friend and an Easter egg maven, for far too long — what a perfect excuse for a visit!

When we entered Jody’s farmhouse kitchen, there was a table with teacups full of dyes and a big bowl of eggs ready to go. Alex and I had great fun, and we learned a lot that afternoon about colors and which combinations produce which colors. We went home with cartons full of unique eggs.

After years of dying eggs with a wide range of botanical sources, Josy had streamlined the dyeing procedure. She had narrowed the necessary ingredients down to three…to continue click on link: Natural Dyes

Shake hands with everyone, men and women alike with a one handed hand shake. If a man uses a two handed handshake on a women with whom they do not have a close relationship, it is seen as condescending.

During a conversation with Tim Sanders, author of The Likeability Factor, I asked Tim about his thoughts on “The Handshake”. Tim advises to match the other person’s handshake and I absolutely agree. While everyone should strive for a firm handshake, if you are presented with a soft handshake, it would be overly aggressive to squeeze the other person’s hand.

Do I Stand?

In business, both men and women stand when being introduced.

What’s in a Name?

When introducing, always give the person’s full name.

Never give anyone a nickname. If a person’s name is Catherine, do not shorten it to Kate unless otherwise directed by the person.

Never use affectionate names for people at work such as “Honey,” “Babe,” “Doll” which can be construed as demeaning and could get you written up for sexual harassment.

Ms., Miss or Mrs.?

In spoken or written communication, address a woman as “Ms.” unless otherwise directed.

By Rank

In business people are introduced based on rank and not gender or age.

No Touchy

Avoid touching people in business. As relationships build, a touch on the shoulder or right forearm is allowed with permission. To be on the safe side men should avoid touching women other than the professional one handed handshake. Tim Sanders who is on a mission to create “lovecats” in the workplace is trying to break down the physical barrier. He will hug, with permission, clients affirming that he really does care about them beyond purely business.

Who Opens the Door?

Whoever gets there first! In business, whoever reaches the door first holds the door open for the next person, regardless of gender. If someone opens a door for you, however, you should not protest this act of politeness, not a demonstration of superiority.

Okay, I can’t leave you hanging. Here are a few tips on remembering someone’s name.

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In your mind write the person’s name in big black bold letters across the person’s forehead. This may be difficult if you don’t know how to spell the person’s name. Since I am a very visual person, I ask for the spelling of their name, especially if the name is unfamiliar. I see it in my mind’s eye and it helps me remember. But the real key to remembering anything is to use the information! Try to say the person’s name at least three times in your initial conversation. Make sure to get a business card, if appropriate and out of their presence write on the back where you met the person and something interesting about the person.

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If you find yourself searching for a person’s name 30 seconds after an introduction, go ahead and ask for it again. Odds are great they are mentally searching for your name as well and will be relieved at the chance to start over. If the person is of high authority this technique will not work, be sure and get their name and title the first time. Concentrate and repeat in your head often. To remember someone’s name is a conscious decision. Remember to remember.

Tess & Dave Coffill, Holly & Catherine Rauser

A deadly mistake too many people make in business is not remembering someone’s name. Dave E. Coffill, one of America’s leading memory instructors spoke at my recent seminar “Fast Track Back to Work: Tools you need to get hired.” Until I met Dave Coffill I can safely say I have never met anyone who could say, “I am good at remembering names.”

Dale Carnegie said, “If you remember my name, you pay me a subtle compliment; you indicate that I have made an impression on you. Remember my name and you add to my feeling of importance.” According to Dr. Ellen Weber researchers have used PET scans to view the brain and when someone’s name is spoken in their presence a part of the brain that processes “self” lights up. Dr. Ellen Weber states, “research confirms you also spark thier brain’s sense of worth, and add value to their day.” Again I am astounded and amazed by Dale Carnegie’s intuitive intelligence.

Be sure to add value to someone’s day by saying their name when you greet them. Have trouble remembering? You are not alone. I will be attending Dave Coffill’s Memory Workshop at the Santa Clara Convention Center April 21st-22nd. That’s if I remember…

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Important Note: No turkeys were harmed in the making of this game!

You do not need expensive china and all the trimmings. Go as simple or as elaborate as you feel moved. A great conversation starter would be using mugs collected from your travels over the years. Or, a Tea Party is a great excuse for the ultimate “girl party” with hats, gloves, bangles and bling, just a few of my favorite things.

If you are new to Tea Parties, you can stay with tea bags. I recommend taking a peek at the Mighty Leaf Tea Company http://mightyleaf.com where you can buy superior teas in biodegradable tea bags.

Customarily tea is served with finger sandwiches; yes you may eat with your fingers. Cucumber or egg sandwiches are easy and inexpensive. For a slightly richer flavor, add smoke salmon sandwiches. Finger sandwiches are optional if your goal is a quick and easy tea.

Sweets satisfy and supply a cure for the afternoon slump. Scones are traditionally served and really are fabulous served from the oven with butter and jam. You can bake your own, check out “Favorite Scones” at www.cooks.com or buy some at your local bakery. A few rich cookies and you are set!

There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea. –Henry James